He's in the mood and I'm not...?

He's being normal for a guy, except he doesn't control himself very well. Tell him he's not respecting you as a person and that he needs to help YOU get in the mood too (otherwise it's almost like , because you don't seem to want it). Try to give him some tips on things to help get you in the mood. If he tries to pull off your pants or whines too much, walk away and tell him (calmly) that this isn't how you want to be put in the mood. Then leave him alone to think. I'd suggest keeping a closed door between you two for a little bit.